Do not diff __internal property in DiffConfig (#414)

This PR updates the implementation of DiffConfig to remove the
`__internal` property when comparing provider config between old state
and new input. It is observed that the `__internal` property is present
when a default provider is used. This causes a provider replacement
every time a user upgrades pulumi-docker-build, as the `__internal`
property is always stripped from state, so Pulumi will always report a
diff.

Ideally, we should determine if this bug can be fixed in either upstream
pulumi-go-provider or pulumi itself. For now, we will fix this locally
within pulumi-docker-build to unblock our users.

Changes:

- Update DiffConfig implementation to strip `__internal` property from
new inputs.
- Add a nodejs upgrade test to test that this solution works

Fixes: #404

examples/upgrade-node/package.json

@@ -0,0 +1,10 @@
+{
+  "name": "provider-docker-build",
+  "devDependencies": {
+    "@types/node": "^18"
+  },
+  "dependencies": {
+    "typescript": "^4.0.0",
+    "@pulumi/pulumi": "3.144.1"
+  }
+}